Leslie Cane Articles

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who have heard their spouse accuse them of having an unequal relationship. Often, one spouse is accusing the other of not having the same type of feelings as they themselves have. It’s almost as if the spouse making the accusations is keeping score and no matter what […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from couples who disagree about the timing of their reconciliation. Usually, one spouse is ready far earlier than the other. And this can cause hurt feelings and confusion. Because it’s often not that the reluctant spouse never wants to reconcile. They often do want to – at least eventually. […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from people who are very hurt because of some things that happened during their marital affair. Even when things improve dramatically, the doubts can remain. That’s why it’s sometimes attractive to think that you could just start over or begin again. But, while this sounds promising in theory, people […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from wives who recently felt so triumphant when their husband finally came home. But unfortunately, that wonderful feeling was short lived. Today, they are not feeling nearly as confident or blissful. Usually, something happens relatively quickly to test or threaten the relationship so that the wife can begin to […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from spouses who have spent some time hearing their spouse say that he’s no longer invested in the marriage or that the marriage is over. Often, there is a great deal of pain and shock the first time that you hear this. But, often, this isn’t the only time […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who are confused about the physical relationship that is still happening (and sometimes at a greater frequency) since they separated from their spouse. Some never anticipated continuing on with a sexual relationship once the separation began. And some are surprised to find that their sex life with […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from folks who are quite torn as to what to think about how their separation is evolving. They are often seeing some improvement, but this has taken so long to happen that they hesitate to get their hopes up. They want to believe in the process and have faith […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from people who are trying very hard to gauge how their trial separation is going in terms of being able to save their marriage. They often look for things that they deem good or bad signs which they believe may ultimately have an impact on their marriage. One common […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from people who feel some regret about forcing their spouse to leave or to move out. Often, this request felt very right or satisfying at the time, but now it just feel hasty and wrong. Most of the time, this decision was made in the heat of the moment […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who aren’t sure about what is the appropriate way to act toward their spouse who has announced that he is going to be moving out, usually for a trial or marital separation. Many spouses are somewhat disappointed in or angry at the their spouse for leaving the […]

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