By: Leslie Cane: It’s not unusual for wives to have difficulty interpreting their husband’s mixed signals during a separation. This can be especially true if the husband is the one who initiated the divorce and now suddenly seems to be interested or receptive to his wife or his marriage again. The type of comment that […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Many of us who have fought to save our marriages have hoped for nothing more than for our spouses to change their mind about the separation or divorce. We figure that all he needs to do is make a conscious decision that he does not want to end the marriage and all […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Sometimes, when you are reluctantly separated from your spouse, hearing the words “I love you,” can make you feel as if you have won the lottery. After all, when you never wanted the separation in the first place, you are looking for anything that might give you hope that one day, the […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Often when wives are trying to get their separated husbands to come back home one of the biggest questions in their mind is: “what is it going to take?” What I mean by this is that they are looking for those magical set of circumstances that is going to make their husband want […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Most people who initiate a separation with their spouse do this because they firmly believe that it is the right thing to do at the right time to do it. Many wish that they could take the time that they need without hurting any one. But unfortunately, this is rarely possible. In […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who are extremely upset because they are dealing with two very serious issues. The first is that they are separated but they wish that they weren’t. The second is that they had a chance to reconcile or get back together and it failed. So now, not only […]
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By: Leslie Cane: When my husband and I just weren’t clicking and were on the verge of separation, it seemed that anything that I said (even when I meant to say something nice or agreeable) was turned and twisted so that my husband would interpret it as my saying something sarcastic or mean. This got […]
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By: Leslie Cane: By the time that some wives contact me, they have already been told by their determined husbands that they are no longer loved. Some of these wives get up their courage to attempt to show their husband the flaws of this thinking or to do something to change his mind. They are […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Many of the wives that I hear from are happy to admit that their husband is a good man for whom they have a great deal of love and respect. Many call him their very best friend. They describe him as the person who knows and cares for them better than anyone […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who are determined to hold out hope for a reconciliation even when others believe that they are crazy or delusional to do so. I can identify with these wives because I used to be one of them. These wives often want some reassure that they aren’t just […]
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