By: Leslie Cane: When we are the separated spouse who is still very invested in our marriage, we will often ask ourselves what we need to do in order to get our spouse to cooperate with us. Most of us feel that ultimately, we will not be able to save our marriage on our own. […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who feel that they have a very unique (and discouraging) situation. Not only has their husband left them (meaning that he has left their home and seemingly initiated a separation.) But, he has also left the immediate area, meaning that the wife doesn’t have easy access to […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I get a lot of correspondence from spouses who are trying to understand and have patience while their spouse goes through a mid life crisis. Many of them do not understand why their spouse would seemingly change over night. And they worry about whether these changes are going to be lasting and […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who are determined to still hold out hope for their marriage, even in the face of a marital separation. This isn’t as easy as you might think. People sometimes think that holding onto hope is as easy as telling yourself that this is all mind over matter. […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Sometimes, after wives have tried what they think are the conventional routes to get their husband back (trying to figure out their problems, asking him to come back, trying to reason with him, etc.) then they can start to believe that they are going to have to completely get away from straight […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Regardless of who initiated the separation, both spouses can deep down wonder if there is still love between them. And even if you never wanted the separation in the first place, you can figure that the least that you can do is to use the separation as a way to gage if […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I strongly believe that one early indication that your marriage might be in trouble is the fact that you and your spouse rarely talk anymore. This was one warning sign that I missed, assuming that my husband and I had just hit a “comfortable phase” where we were mostly just reading one […]
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By: Leslie Cane: A good amount of the correspondence that I get comes from wives who are not sure how to deal with a husband who has initiated a separation after a mid life crisis. Understandably, it can be a big challenge to deal with or try to reason with these husbands because they are […]
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By: Leslie Cane: One would think that if you were involved in a marital separation, then you would be well aware of this. After all, most of the time, when couples decide to separate, they first discuss this at length. So that when the time comes to separate and go their separate ways, both people […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Many of the people that I hear from are concerned that their spouse is either going to leave them or has already left. Sometimes though, I hear from folks who suspect that their spouse wants to separate but isn’t willing to be the one to walk out the door. Instead, they feel […]
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