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by: Leslie Cane: I once heard from a wife was still in shock that she had received divorce papers at her office without any warning. She knew that for the last few months, things had not been all that great between her and her husband. But she assumed that they had just been going through […]

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By: Leslie Cane: A good deal of the correspondence that I get comes from wives who are going through a separation with their husbands. Many are struggling a great deal. Most tell me that they still love their husbands, no matter what the state of their marriage is or how their husband is acting at […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Few things land harder than hearing your husband — the man you’ve shared your life, dreams, and history with — say he’s not sure if he wants to be married to you anymore. Just like that, your world is turned upside down, and the world you thought you knew is now spinning […]

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by: Leslie Cane: I sometimes get correspondence from wives who tell me that their husbands are no longer affectionate and loving. Sometimes, this is only a recent event. But other times, it’s been going on for a while. Very often, the wife tries to ignore this at first, telling herself that her husband is just […]

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By: Leslie Cane” When the day comes that your husband admits he’s not sure he wants to stay married — or that he might want a divorce — you may feel like your world is spinning. And what you say next might feel incredibly high-stakes. Should you ask him to explain?Should you make your case?Should […]

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By: Leslie Cane:  I sometimes hear from people who are very disappointed with their spouse’s behavior during a trial or marital separation.  Often, they have very reluctantly agreed to the separation either because they didn’t feel that they had a choice or they are hoping the break will actually improve their situation.  Some are very […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I hear this question, or versions of it, so often from wives going through a trial separation. And I understand why. When your husband asks for space or moves out, it can feel like your whole world is being ripped out from under you. You know he needs time. You know you’re […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Many wives are beyond hurt that their husbands have been hinting about separating in order to explore relationships with other people.  In other words, their husband wants to date other women while still being married. A wife might explain: “last week, my husband approached me and said he wanted a separation.  He […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from wives who have been served with divorce papers or whose husbands have told them that they want to end the marriage. And, much of the time, the husband will not give concrete reasons as to why he is doing this. The wife will be determined to find out […]

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By: Leslie Cane: One of the most heartbreaking days in a troubled marriage is when your husband physically moves out. Maybe it happened suddenly after an argument, or maybe it was the result of a long, slow slide into distance and disconnection. Either way, you’re now left standing in your empty house and wondering how […]

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