Leslie Cane Articles

by: Leslie Cane: If you’re researching this question, I’m assuming that your marriage is not on firm ground or is in trouble. I don’t know if you’re contemplating divorce, already taking a break from the relationship, or just want to improve upon what you already have. No matter which situation you’re in, I’ve found that […]

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By: Leslie Cane: It is undoubtedly painful when your spouse sits you down, looks into your eyes, and tells you that they aren’t happy.  It’s unsettling when your spouse has an increasingly short fuse, making it obvious that he doesn’t think he’s living his best life or best relationship.  In these situations, it is very normal to feel […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I realize that there are situations where both people are completely on board and ready to move forward with a divorce. But, these are not the situations about which I’m commonly approached. Instead, I’m usually contacted by wives whose husbands have indicated that they want to divorce (and some have even filed/served […]

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By: Leslie Cane: From all of the comments that I get on my blog, the ones from wives whose husbands have just filed for divorce are often the most panicked.  There’s no question that being served with or being given divorce papers can cause panic, and the perception that the clock is now ticking.  Most […]

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By: Leslie Cane:  I sometimes hear from wives who are mourning the lack of a connection in their marriage.  Many worry that the emotional bond is no longer there.  I heard from a wife who said: “I don’t think that my husband is emotionally connected to me anymore.  He’s very cold and distant toward me.  […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who are so upset or shocked by their husband announcing that he’s moving.  Because of their overwhelming emotions, they often aren’t sure how to formulate an appropriate response. Many have conflicting feelings. They are angry or sad, but they want to react in a way that is […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Most of the women who contact me want more than anything for their husband to change his mind about the separation or the divorce so that they can save their marriage and move on.  This process is difficult enough, but it becomes a little harder when your husband begins to send you […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives whose husband is giving them conflicting messages about their marriage and his level of commitment.  Sometimes he is telling his wife that although he loves her, he is not happy with her or with the marriage. I heard from a wife who said: “the other day, my […]

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by: Leslie Cane: I recently heard from a wife who was both confused and frustrated. She and her husband had been having marital problems for a while. They had been doing everything that they could to work on their marriage. For the last month, they’d been in intense counseling. It had been a struggle, but, […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Unfortunately, the women who visit my blog have one thing in common – there is serious trouble brewing in their marriages. Either their husbands have just initiated a divorce, requested space, or indicated that they just aren’t happy and need “a break.” This is a difficult position to be in if you want to save your marriage. You’re often at a disadvantage because often, […]

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