Leslie Cane Articles

By: Leslie Cane:  I sometimes hear from wives who are mourning the lack of a connection in their marriage.  Many worry that the emotional bond is no longer there.  I heard from a wife who said: “I don’t think that my husband is emotionally connected to me anymore.  He’s very cold and distant toward me.  […]

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by: Leslie Cane: I recently heard from a wife who had been gently asking her husband what was wrong for quite some time. He seemed miserable, withdrawn, and unhappy, yet whenever she checked in, he brushed it off. At first, he told her it was work stress. That explanation made sense, and she gave him […]

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by: Leslie Cane:  Some of the people who contact me about successfully handling a separation and saving their marriage don’t have a lot of access to their spouse and are trying to change this.  But, others have regular and intimate access to their spouse – sometimes so much that the couple are still continuing to […]

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I sometimes hear from wives who are trying to set it up to have the best chance that their husband is going to come back to them after the separation.  They often ask me how they can tell if he’s actually going to come back. I often hear comments: “will my husband come back after […]

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by: Leslie Cane: I once received an email from a wife who was absolutely devastated. During an argument, her husband lashed out and told her that he had “settled” when he married her. He went on to say that he was no longer sure she was the right person for him or that their marriage […]

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By Leslie Cane:  I often hear from women who are struggling to decide how to respond when their husband tells them that he wants a divorce.  Most of the women who contact me don’t want a divorce and want to save their marriages instead.  Sometimes, the husband has already mentioned the divorce and, other times, […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I once heard from a wife whose husband had been repeatedly telling her that their marriage was “over.” He said it plainly and often, as though repeating it enough times would make it true. The problem was that she did not agree. Not even a little. In her mind, their marriage was […]

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by: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from many wives who confess that they’re afraid their husband isn’t in love with them the way he used to be. When I ask what makes them believe this, they often point to subtle but painful changes in his behavior. They tell me he looks at other women differently […]

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By: Leslie Cane:  I often hear from wives who tell me that they don’t think that their husband cares about them anymore.  They will often report a husband who just doesn’t seem involved or invested in them or the marriage.  Sometimes, when they confront their husband with these suspicions, he will deny that there is […]

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by: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from many wives who are convinced that their husband’s depression is playing a major role in the struggles they’re facing at home. These wives often describe a man who seems to have projected his sadness and hopelessness onto the marriage itself. He insists he doesn’t love them. He hints […]

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