What Does It Mean If You’re Separated From Your Spouse But Still Having Sex

by: Leslie Cane:  Some of the people who contact me about successfully handling a separation and saving their marriage don’t have a lot of access to their spouse and are trying to change this.  But, others have regular and intimate access to their spouse – sometimes so much that the couple are still continuing to […]

Will My Husband Come Back After The Separation? Here’s How To Make Sure That He Does

I sometimes hear from wives who are trying to set it up to have the best chance that their husband is going to come back to them after the separation.  They often ask me how they can tell if he’s actually going to come back. I often hear comments: “will my husband come back after […]

He Thinks He Settled When He Married Me: What Now?

by: Leslie Cane: I once received an email from a wife who was absolutely devastated. During an argument, her husband lashed out and told her that he had “settled” when he married her. He went on to say that he was no longer sure she was the right person for him or that their marriage […]

How To Respond When Your Husband Says He Wants A Divorce

By Leslie Cane:  I often hear from women who are struggling to decide how to respond when their husband tells them that he wants a divorce.  Most of the women who contact me don’t want a divorce and want to save their marriages instead.  Sometimes, the husband has already mentioned the divorce and, other times, […]

He Says It’s Over But I Want To Save Our Marriage

By: Leslie Cane: I once heard from a wife whose husband had been repeatedly telling her that their marriage was “over.” He said it plainly and often, as though repeating it enough times would make it true. The problem was that she did not agree. Not even a little. In her mind, their marriage was […]

My Husband Doesn’t Act As If He Loves Me Anymore. What Should I Do?

by: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from many wives who confess that they’re afraid their husband isn’t in love with them the way he used to be. When I ask what makes them believe this, they often point to subtle but painful changes in his behavior. They tell me he looks at other women differently […]

Signs Your Husband Doesn’t Care About You Or Your Marriage Anymore

By: Leslie Cane:  I often hear from wives who tell me that they don’t think that their husband cares about them anymore.  They will often report a husband who just doesn’t seem involved or invested in them or the marriage.  Sometimes, when they confront their husband with these suspicions, he will deny that there is […]

My Depressed Husband Says He Doesn’t Love Me – Tips and Advice That Might Help

by: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from many wives who are convinced that their husband’s depression is playing a major role in the struggles they’re facing at home. These wives often describe a man who seems to have projected his sadness and hopelessness onto the marriage itself. He insists he doesn’t love them. He hints […]

Is There Any Way To Stop My Husband From Divorcing Me?

by: Leslie Cane: I hear from so many wives who are either staring at divorce papers on the kitchen table or sensing—deep in their gut—that those papers are coming soon. And overwhelmingly, these women do not want their marriages to end. They want another chance. They want a path back. They want a husband who […]

My Husband’s Saying He’s Going To Leave

by: Leslie Cane: I once heard from a wife who told me that almost any time she and her husband hit a snag in their marriage, he pulled out what she called the “leave card.” She said, “Every time things get rough, he tells me he’s going to leave. He’s even packed his bags a […]