Leslie Cane Articles

by: Leslie Cane: I would say that the vast majority of the emails and messages I receive these days come from wives who are desperately trying to figure out how to get a husband emotionally reinvested – or even to come home after a separation. Most of these women simply cannot accept that this might […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I hear from a lot of wives who are living in uncertainty because of their husband’s midlife crisis. Many hope that this is a problem that is eventually going to pass. But having that sort of faith becomes more difficult when your husband has actually left you due to his new change […]

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by: Leslie Cane:  I once heard from a wife who was heartbroken and scared. Her husband had recently told her that he was considering a separation because he simply couldn’t see anything changing between them. To him, they were stuck. To her, a separation felt like the first step toward a divorce she desperately didn’t […]

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by: Leslie Cane: I hear from wives in this exact situation more often than you might think. Just last night, a woman wrote to me after her husband sat her down – very calmly, very matter-of-factly – and told her he “just wasn’t happy in the marriage anymore.” He didn’t offer specifics. He didn’t point […]

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by: Leslie Cane: I recently heard from a woman who was feeling completely unmoored in her marriage. About six months earlier, her husband had announced that he wanted a divorce. He hadn’t said it out of anger. He had actually followed through — consulted an attorney, started the paperwork, and set the entire painful process […]

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by: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from spouses who are standing at that painful crossroads – unsure if their marriage has truly reached its end or simply hit a very difficult chapter. They’ll describe their situation in heartbreaking detail and then ask the question they’re most afraid to say out loud: “Do you think my […]

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by: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who suddenly find themselves living alone – even though they never saw this coming. One morning, everything seems normal. You head off to work or run errands. And by the time you walk back through your front door, your husband has packed a bag and left. Other […]

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By: Leslie Cane: People often contact me and tell me that their spouse has become “indifferent” to them or their marriage.  Needless to say, most people can’t help but notice this.  I often hear comments like: “my husband has become completely indifferent to me.  He’s no longer affectionate.  He mostly just ignores me.  It’s not […]

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by Leslie Cane: People write to me when they’re scared, overwhelmed, or wondering if the marriage they once believed in is slipping through their fingers. Some are wrestling with infidelity. Others worry that one or both spouses have “fallen out of love.” And still others are exhausted from a financial crisis, a sick parent, or […]

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by: Leslie Cane: I once heard from a wife who was exhausted by a painful cycle that had taken over her marriage. During a heated argument, her husband blurted out that “maybe a divorce would be better.” She didn’t believe he truly meant it. In her heart, she felt it was something he said to […]

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