I’ve Changed My Mind About The Divorce. Is It Too Late To Get Him Back?

I once heard from a wife who felt certain that divorce was the only way forward. Interestingly, it had originally been her husband who suggested ending the marriage. At first, she resisted, hoping things would get better. But as time passed and their relationship only grew more tense, she finally agreed to go through with […]

What To Do When Your Spouse Falls Out of Love

By: Leslie Cane: I hear from so many people who are floored when their spouse suddenly says something like, “I don’t think I’m in love with you anymore.” It’s such a devastating statement. One woman recently told me: “My husband blurted it out at dinner, almost like he was commenting on the weather. He didn’t […]

How Can I Reconcile With My Husband Before It’s Too Late. (He’s Filed For Divorce)

By: Leslie Cane: I get a lot of emails from people who are desperate to save their marriages—especially when the divorce papers are already filed. Often, the spouse who filed wants out, and the one left behind is heartbroken, willing to do almost anything to stop it. They’re trying to buy time to save a […]

How To Make Your Marriage Work When Your Husband Is Thinking About Leaving

By: Leslie Cane: I once heard from a wife who was in a heartbreaking spot. For a while, her husband had been hinting that he was thinking about leaving. But now he wasn’t just hinting—he was flat-out saying that he planned to walk out the door within a couple of weeks. She had asked him […]

Is My Husband Is Going To Change His Mind About The Divorce? How Can I Tell?

By: Leslie Cane:  I recently heard from a wife whose husband had told her that he wanted a divorce about six weeks before.  The husband had not yet filed for divorce.  He told the wife that he wanted to wait until the summer when the kids were out of school.  He didn’t want for the […]

What Causes A Lack Of Affection In A Marriage? How Can I Fix It?

By: Leslie Cane: One of the most common emails I get from readers goes something like this: “My husband used to be affectionate, but now he barely touches me. He says he loves me, but it feels like we’re roommates.” It’s heartbreaking. And confusing. Especially when the spouse who’s pulling away insists nothing is wrong. […]