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by: Leslie Cane: I hear from a lot of people who tell me they are struggling with whether they should stay in their “loveless marriage.” I’ve found that loveless can mean very different things depending on the couple. Sometimes, it means there is no longer physical intimacy. Other times, it means the passion and affection […]

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by: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who worry that they love their husbands far more than their husbands love them. Sometimes, they even measure this love by degrees. For example, I might hear something like: “I love him on a level eleven, but he only loves me on a level one. I’m always […]

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by: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who admit something very difficult: they’re not sure they still love their husbands the way they used to. One woman recently told me, with tears in her eyes, that she wished she felt differently. Her husband hadn’t done anything wrong. In fact, she described him as a […]

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by: Leslie Cane: Once, I heard from a woman who told me that her marriage “just didn’t work” for her anymore. She explained: “My marriage used to make me happy and made me a better person. But now it just makes me angry and bitter. I don’t like the person I become when I’m around […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I recently heard from a wife who was just devastated. She told me that during an argument with her husband, she had blurted out: “You act like you don’t love me anymore.” His reply shocked her to her core. He said, “That’s because I don’t.” Later, once things had cooled down, she […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who feel completely panicked when their husband asks for “space” or “time apart.” Their minds immediately go to the worst-case scenario: If I give him this space, what if he likes it too much? What if it leads to separation or even divorce? Those are very normal […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I hear from a lot of people – mostly wives, but sometimes husbands too – who worry that they’ve waited too long to save their marriage. They’ll tell me: “It feels like the spark is gone.” Or, “We can’t even talk without fighting.” Or, “My spouse has already moved out. Surely, it’s […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Hearing your husband say, “I don’t love you anymore,” is probably one of the most painful things a wife can experience. Many of the women who reach out to me tell me that those words are still ringing in their ears. Sometimes, the admission comes out during a heated argument. Other times, […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I recently heard from a wife who told me, “I want to write my husband a letter that will help me reconcile my marriage with him. Can you help me?” This couple had been struggling for a while, but things had recently gotten worse. The husband was hinting at moving out and […]

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I can’t tell you how often I hear from people who describe their marriage as “loveless.” Sometimes they mean the spark and chemistry are gone. Other times, it’s about intimacy  – they aren’t having sex anymore. And still others are talking about a lack of connection, affection, or emotional closeness. Whatever the exact situation, the […]

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