Leslie Cane Articles

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who are dealing with one of the most nerve-wracking requests a husband can make: he wants space. It’s a request that can make your heart sink. Because when you hear “I need space,” what you often feel is, “I want out.” And that’s terrifying. Many women tell […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who tell me some version of the same story: “I want to save my marriage so badly, but my husband has told me he doesn’t. He says he’s done. I feel like I’m the only one fighting for us. Is there anything I can do on my […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Not long ago, I heard from a wife who was completely devastated. Her husband had just sat her down and told her, very matter-of-factly, that he wasn’t in love with her anymore. He said their marriage was over, that it had been over for a while, and that there was nothing either […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I hear from wives all the time who tell me the same heartbreaking worry: “I think it’s too late to get him back.” Maybe there’s already been a separation. Sometimes, the divorce papers are even signed. Other times, he’s with someone else, or he’s said he’s “moved on.” For some women, there’s […]

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By: Leslie Cane: It can be one of life’s biggest ironies. You try, sometimes for months, to get your husband to reconsider. You plead. You suggest counseling. You hold out hope. But he resists at every turn. Finally, you let go because you feel you have no other choice. You begin to move on—only to […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I hear from so many wives who tell me, “My husband just doesn’t act like he loves me anymore. It hurts so much, and it’s affecting our marriage. How can I get him to love me the way I want and need him to?” It’s an incredibly painful place to be. And […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Not long ago, I heard from a wife whose husband sat her down and told her something she never thought she’d hear: he didn’t want her anymore. He wasn’t sure yet if it meant separation or divorce, but one thing was clear—he was ready to walk away. She was crushed. Completely blindsided. […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Occasionally, I hear from people who ask me for specifics about a “no contact rule” during a marital separation. Perhaps they are dealing with a spouse who has been very clear on his desire for space and, as a result, has asked for no contact from the other spouse. Or, maybe they […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I hear from wives all the time who have been hit with some version of: “I don’t want to be married anymore.” Sometimes, it’s blurted out in the middle of an argument. Other times, it’s delivered calmly—maybe even quietly—when he sits you down and tells you that his feelings have changed. He […]

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By: Leslie Cane: The threat of a separation is very difficult, no matter who initiated it.  But when your spouse is using your own words and wishes against you, then you can feel incredibly misunderstood.  This is especially true if you were only trying to make your marriage better and your husband misunderstood this and […]

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