3 Signs A Husband May Not Be Attracted To His Wife Anymore

By: Leslie Cane: I hear from a lot of women who say it starts as a whisper in the back of their mind—a subtle shift they can’t quite explain. Maybe he used to linger over a kiss a little longer. Maybe he used to glance across the room like he couldn’t help himself. But now? […]

What To Do When Your Husband Says He Doesn’t Know What He Wants In Terms Of Your Marriage

By: Leslie Cane: I so often hear from wives who are confused by a husband who is telling them that thing aren’t good in their marriage, but who also isn’t specific as to what he wants to do about it. In other words, he will tell you that the marriage is no longer working for […]

My Husband Says There Is No Hope For Our Marriage. Is He Right

By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from wives who are reeling after their husband says something devastating like: “There’s just no hope for us anymore.” And I recently heard from a woman who had been trying everything — and I do mean everything — to save her marriage. They’d gone to counseling.They’d taken long weekends […]

My Husband Needed Time And I Gave It To Him – But Now He Wants A Divorce – What Now?

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes speak with wives who try to do exactly what their husband asks—hoping that giving him what he says he needs will bring him back around. But sometimes, things don’t go the way we imagined they would. Sometimes, even when we do everything “right” for our marriage, the outcome still hurts. […]

What Are Some Reasons My Separated Spouse Won’t Talk To Me?

By: Leslie Cane:  One of the biggest issues that I hear about from separated spouses is about disagreements or misunderstandings regarding communication.  Typically, there is one spouse who wants much more communication and one spouse who is resistant to giving it. Usually (but not always) the spouse who initiated the separation is the one who […]

Three Reasons Your Spouse May Not Be Invested in Trying to Save Your Marriage

By Leslie Cane: I sometimes speak with wives who are doing everything they can—emotionally, mentally, even physically—to get their husbands to commit to saving their marriage. They’re all in. They believe that if both people would just work together, they could turn things around. And yet, the heartbreaking reality is that their husband just doesn’t […]

What To Do If Your Husband Says He Doesn’t Want To Be Married Anymore: Tips That Might Help

By: Leslie Cane: Many wives are reeling from their husband’s recent assertion that he no longer wants to be married.  The wives often know that they are at a point where they must behave and measure their actions and responses very carefully.  Because quite often, they want to remain married.  And they want to change […]

How Should You Respond When You Husband Asks For A Separation?

By: Leslie Cane: I’ve spoken with a good deal of women who are blindsided when their husband asks for a separation. And I mean really blindsided—like their stomach drops out, and their world shifts on its axis. Most of the time, they don’t see it coming. Even when things haven’t been perfect, the word “separation” […]

My Husband Said He Wasn’t In Love With Me Anymore. Here’s What I Did Next.

By: Leslie Cane: When my husband told me he wasn’t in love with me anymore, I don’t think I could’ve prepared myself, even if I’d seen it coming. But the truth is, I hadn’t seen it coming. Not like that. Not in those exact words. We were sitting on the edge of the couch. I […]

Is Our Marriage Too Far Gone To Save It?

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from spouses (usually wives) who are wondering or want to know if their marriage is “too far gone.”  Often, they want to save that same marriage but they just aren’t sure if it’s possible.  They know things are quickly deteriorating and they aren’t sure if they want to put […]