By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who feel like their world is turning upside down. They’ve known, deep down, that something’s been off for a while. The distance. The silence. Maybe the tension. One wife recently told me, “My husband’s been saying the marriage isn’t working. He’s been back and forth—talking about leaving, […]
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By: Leslie Cane: It’s something I hear often from women. Their husbands have told them, sometimes bluntly and without much emotion, that it’s just too late. That the marriage is already over. That trying now wouldn’t matter. But here’s what I’ve found. Most of the women I speak with don’t agree with that statement at […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from folks who are on the receiving end of what sounds like a pretty lame excuse. Their spouse has told them he wants to try a trial separation in order to take some time to “find himself.” These vague words can sound like something only meant to deceive. I’m […]
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By: Leslie Cane I sometimes hear from women who reach out to me at the exact moment they think the story is over. The moment when their husband or partner has packed his things, closed the door behind him, and left their home and possibly, their life. It’s the kind of pain that stings in […]
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I once heard from a wife who felt like the ground had disappeared beneath her feet. She and her husband had only been married a few years. They’d just bought their first home. They were even talking about starting a family. And then—just like that—he sat her down and told her he wasn’t sure marriage […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from women who feel completely alone in trying to save their marriages. Their husbands have checked out; sometimes emotionally, sometimes physically. He’s moved out, asked for a separation, filed the papers, and walked away. And now she’s left sitting in the middle of the wreckage, wondering how to rebuild […]
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I sometimes speak with both husbands and wives who tell me they’re not happy in their marriages and are looking for advice about what to do. Sometimes, it’s clear that the person reaching out is seeking confirmation—wanting someone to acknowledge that the situation truly is difficult. In a few cases, I get the sense that […]
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by leslie cane: I often hear from folks who are having various troublesome issues within their marriage. One relatively common theme is when one spouse gets in the habit of throwing out hurtful comments or words so often that it almost becomes a habit. Whether they are aware of it or not, this can very […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from women who tell me that although their husband has been saying that he wants a divorce, they’re beginning to feel a little bit of hope that he might be coming around and changing his mind—at least just a little bit. I often hear comments like: “I’m starting to […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who complain that their middle aged husband is still acting like a young, single man. At first, this type of behavior might seem annoying but harmless. However, over time, it can start to become much more worrisome and it can make you wonder if there is something […]
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