Is My Marriage Really In Trouble? Or Is My Husband Just Blowing Off Steam?

By: Leslie Cane: It is undoubtedly painful when your spouse sits you down, looks into your eyes, and tells you that they aren’t happy.  It’s unsettling when your spouse has an increasingly short fuse, making it obvious that he doesn’t think he’s living his best life or best relationship.  In these situations, it is very normal to feel […]

My Husband Wants a Divorce – Do I Have to Divorce Him?

By: Leslie Cane: I realize that there are situations where both people are completely on board and ready to move forward with a divorce. But, these are not the situations about which I’m commonly approached. Instead, I’m usually contacted by wives whose husbands have indicated that they want to divorce (and some have even filed/served […]

What to Do When Your Husband Files For Divorce, But You Want to Save the Marriage

By: Leslie Cane: From all of the comments that I get on my blog, the ones from wives whose husbands have just filed for divorce are often the most panicked.  There’s no question that being served with or being given divorce papers can cause panic, and the perception that the clock is now ticking.  Most […]

My Husband Says He Loves Me But Isn’t Happy With Me? What Does This Mean?

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives whose husband is giving them conflicting messages about their marriage and his level of commitment.  Sometimes he is telling his wife that although he loves her, he is not happy with her or with the marriage. I heard from a wife who said: “the other day, my […]