By: Leslie Cane: Many people see separation as only a tiny bit different than a divorce. They assume that separated couples are practically divorced – or will be soon. So these folks are surprised when they see those same separated couples doing some of the things that they would normally do. I understand the confusion. […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Many of the wives who visit this blog believe that their husbands never loved them. Some believe this claim because of his behavior. Others believe this because he has initiated a break or separation. And some believe this because he has straight up told them. The husbands who claim not to love […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I’m going to try to be gently but brutally honest. It is rare for me to dialogue with someone who is separated but completely coping with a sense of peace and contentment. Even if you feel that the separation was the right or only thing to do, most people still struggle emotionally. […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Most separated people intuitively know that communication is vitally important if you want to reconcile and save your marriage. Unfortunately, though, communication can be among the most tricky issues to get right. Often, both spouses are dealing with separate, individual issues and agendas during the separation. And these opposing views can cloud […]
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By: Leslie Cane: If you didn’t want to separate, it’s normal to be relieved every time your separated spouse reaches out to you. After all, you want to be receptive. You want to be somewhat available. You want to be in touch and in communication so that hopefully, this separation will only be temporary. But […]
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By: Leslie Cane: It’s very common for me to be asked what is the best, most effective, and easiest way to fight for your marriage while you’re separated. How can you fight in a way that might actually save your marriage and make your life better rather than worse? I honestly believe that most people […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from spouses (usually wives) who are wondering or want to know if their marriage is “too far gone.” Often, they want to save that same marriage but they just aren’t sure if it’s possible. They know things are quickly deteriorating and they aren’t sure if they want to put […]
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