My Husband Doesn’t Know How He Feels About Me Anymore

By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from wives who are struggling to get their husbands to think more favorably of them or their marriage. Some of the wives have their husbands tell them that he doesn’t love them anymore. Another common declaration is “I love you but I’m not ‘in love’ with you.” Sometimes though, […]

Should We Take Things Slow During Our Marital Separation?

By: Leslie Cane: To be honest, when you are newly separated, everything feels immediate. You feel as if you are on the verge of a major and irrevocable loss. So, the idea of being deliberate and slowly methodical does not appeal to many separated spouses who miss their significant other and who would do just […]

The Trial Separation – Does it Work? When A Trial Separation Is Actually A Good Idea That Can Save Your Marriage.

By: Leslie Cane: Recent statistics show us that couples are trying trial separations in record numbers.  There are potentially endless reasons for this.  But, I believe that the economy is playing a large role.  Maintaining and paying for two households is much more expensive than paying for one.  Many couples do the math and decide […]

Is It Normal Not To Communicate During A Marital Or Trial Separation?

Many of the wives who reach out to me very much want to keep in regular contact with their separated husbands. Many of them never wanted the separation to begin with, and only begrudgingly or reluctantly gave in because they perceived that there was really no choice. Unfortunately, not all husbands cooperate regarding communication. In […]

What Do Men Do When They’re No Longer In Love With Their Wives? Which Options Will They Typically Take?

By: Leslie Cane:  It’s a horrible feeling when you start to suspect that your husband isn’t in love with you anymore.  It’s an even worse feeling when he doesn’t deny this when confronted, or, even worse, admits it.  Once this reality sinks in, many wives ask themselves how their husband is going to proceed. A […]

My Separated Husband Genuinely Seems Much Happier Alone. How Is This Possible?

Understandably, many separated wives feel horrible despair as soon as their husband leaves the house to begin a marital separation. Many wives attempt to console themselves with the hope that, with any luck, their husband will find that he misses his home and his marriage quite quickly. Some wives find this to be the case. […]

Husbands Who Want To Leave Their Marriages: What Are They Thinking?

By: Leslie Cane: I so often hear from wives who would give anything to look inside of the mind of the husband who has either left the marriage or who wants to leave it. They figure if they knew exactly what their husband was thinking, they could address his concerns and save their marriage. Common […]

Is My Marriage Worth Saving Quiz: True Or False Questions To Help You Decide

I hear from a lot of folks who are trying to decide if their marriage is worth saving. They often want to tell me the details of their marriage and then get my opinion as to whether they should fight for their marriage or just give in and call it quits. The thing is, I […]