My Separated Spouse Won’t Come Home Because He Says I Don’t Keep My Promises

By: Leslie Cane: Many separated husbands make it clear that they want real change in their wife or in their marriage before they return home. Understandably, many of these wives (myself included) are willing to do whatever it takes to make these necessary changes. Because isn’t this a small price to pay in order to […]

My Husband Won’t Say Why He Left Me. How To Handle It When Your Husband Won’t Explain Why He Walked Out

by: Leslie cane: I recently heard from a wife who just wasn’t sure what to do. Her husband had left her and the home the week before and now was not accepting her calls, texts, or emails. Anytime that she did get him on the phone, placed herself in front of him, and had his […]

3 Straight-Forward Steps to Fix a Broken Marriage: (Can Be Done By Yourself)

by: Leslie Cane: I often hear from people who want step-by-step instructions on how to repair their marriage. Often, they know that some change needs to happen, but they just don’t know where to start. And, they are afraid of doing something that is only going to make matters worse. Many tell me they think […]

In Various Ways, My Separated Spouse Shows Me I’m Not His Equal

By: Leslie Cane: When your marriage is feeling strong enough to survive, inequality within it is sometimes bearable. You may put off addressing not feeling like your spouse’s equal in the hopes that it gets better. However, if you are separated, you might see this imbalance a little differently. You may think that it needs […]

What Is A Peaceful Separation?

By: Leslie Cane: I’ve noticed that in the last couple of years, we’ve seen a lot of buzz phrases from couples who are trying to figure out the direction of their marriage with as little drama and pain as is possible. You may hear phrases like “conscious uncoupling” or “peaceful separation.” People are often confused […]