When Your Separated Spouse Cuts Off All Communication And Contact

Most people intuitively know that if they are going to reconcile with their separated spouse, they are going to need a lot of open and positive communication in order to make this happen. That is why it can be absolutely devastating when your spouse suddenly decides to cut off all communication and contact. It can […]

I’m Worried I’ll Ruin My Spouse’s Happiness By Asking For A Separation

Often, the people I hear from are the spouses who did not want to separate.  They are usually the ones who are a bit blindsided by their spouse moving out. And they’re looking for a strategy to save their marriage.  They weren’t necessarily unhappy, and they want things to return to the way that they […]

I Have So Much Anxiety About My Marital Separation

Most people have at least some anxiety about unpleasant events that they know are coming but haven’t yet happened.  A martial separation can fall into this category – especially when you didn’t want the separation to begin with.  It’s very easy to fear the worst, (which for many people, is a divorce.)  It’s also easy […]

Why Would My Separated Husband Not Allow Me To Help Him Feel Better?

By: Leslie Cane: It usually doesn’t take much for a person who is separated to worry that their spouse is distancing himself from them. It’s natural to assume that anything that goes wrong or that feels off might mean that a reconciliation just isn’t possible. Here is one such example. I might hear from a […]

I Think That My Husband Is Keeping Secrets During Our Separation

I sometimes hear from wives who are having an incredibly hard time during their marital separation. Not only do they miss their husband desperately, but they can’t help but notice that he is being incredibly secretive. It is just human nature to want to know what is going on with your spouse when you are […]

Signs That A Separated Husband Has Moved On, At Least Emotionally

I often hear from separated wives who are terrified that their husband has (or is getting ready to) “move on.” The wives are very worried that the husband is beginning to envision his life without her in it. She worries that he is starting to potentially see himself as a single person. This is her […]