My Husband Left For The Night. Does This Mean That We’re Heading For A Separation Or Divorce

I sometimes hear from wives who have spent a night away from their husband because he stormed out after a fight. Sometimes the wives know where their husband went and other times, he is not ready to disclose this information. Regardless of the specific details, many wives are shaken by this. No matter what the […]

If My Husband Won’t Talk About His Feelings During Our Separation, Does This Mean Our Marriage Is Over?

By: Leslie Cane:  I sometimes hear from people who are worried about their spouse’s lack of transparency during their trial separation. Often, they were really hoping to get some insights into how their spouse might be feeling and whether these same feelings are good or bad for the future of their marriage. I heard from […]

I’m Trying To Be Patient During My Trial Separation, But I Really Miss My Husband. How Do I Hold Back?

By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from women who intuitively know that they shouldn’t pressure their husband when they are going through a marital separation. Typically, the husband already knows that the wife hasn’t embraced the separation and would like for him to come home as soon as possible. The wife knows that there is […]

My Husband Is An Unhappy Person. No Matter What I Do, He Won’t Stop Complaining About Our Marriage. Tips That Might Help

By: Leslie Cane: It can be very hurtful and frustrating when your spouse constantly complains about a certain level of unhappiness despite improvements that you’ve tried to make.  You might think that you’ve addressed his concerns, only to turn around and find that he is sullen and unhappy again.  It can begin to feel like […]

My Husband Says He Doesn’t Care What I Do In Terms Of Our Marriage

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who have been trying all sorts of tactics in order to get their husband to be committed to and interested in their marriage once again. They might threaten to leave. They might try to become more independent so that their attention is not focused solely on their […]

How To Convince A Separated Husband To Communicate When You Always Have To Call Him And He Never Wants To Meet Face-To-Face.

By: Leslie Cane: Many wives are very upset during their marital separation because their worst fear is literally coming true. Although their husband may have reassured them that they would stay in constant contact, once the separation begins, he can go silent. Many of the wives intuitively realize the inherent danger in this. If you […]

How Often Should You See Your Spouse During A Marital Separation

By:  Leslie Cane: I often hear from people who are looking for tips or advice on how to set up a martial or trial separation. Many just don’t know what to expect. And, they want to make sure that they are doing things as close to right as possible so that they are going to […]