Leslie Cane Articles

I sometimes hear from people who feel quite guilty for being critical of or unhappy in their marriage.  This is usually because, by their own admission, their spouse is a good, caring person who has done nothing wrong.  However, the marriage just isn’t fulfilling for whatever reason and they aren’t sure how to rectify the […]

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I often hear from separated wives who are looking for signs that their husband may be still invested in the marriage so that a reconciliation might be possible. Understandably, she’s often frantically searching for anything that she might hold onto that may give her some hope. One such is example is when her husband continues […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who have been telling their husband that they are considering leaving the home or the marriage. Some are sincere about this. They are unhappy and feel that taking a break by leaving may be the best thing at the time. Others are not exactly serious about leaving. […]

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I sometimes hear from wives who freely admit that they are desperate to get back their separated husbands. I can easily identify with this because I was in their situation once.  I know that feeling of believing that you have a limited window where you might be able to get him back, and so you […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Saving your marriage with two willing people can feel daunting and overwhelming at times.  But saving your marriage when one spouse is not participating and has said very hurtful things can feel downright impossible.  A wife might be dealing with a marriage in which both parties have said hurtful things that have […]

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It can be hard to set clear boundaries during a trial or marital separation.  This can be especially true if the spouses differ in their opinion about the need for one in the first place.  Often, there is one spouse who feels that a separation is the only way to save the marriage, while the […]

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I sometimes hear from wives who are finally going to meet up with their separated husband.  Often, the husband is the spouse who initiated the separation, while the wife was reluctant to separate and has been looking forward to seeing her husband again.  Many of these husbands wanted a “break” or “space” and so the […]

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Some husbands can be a bit mysterious and vague when they initiate a separation.  They’ll tell their wives that they just need some time away.  They insinuate that it might all be temporary. Sometimes, they will reassure their wife that they still love her (or at least care very much about her,) but they just […]

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