By: Leslie Cane: A lot of wives who contact me about a husband who seemingly doesn’t care anymore will tell you that the whole thing was kind of abrupt. I don’t mean to imply that they never noted any unhappiness or frustration in their husband. They did. They often knew that things weren’t great and […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Wives who have just become (or are about to become) separated often wonder how their husband is feeling. Many suspect that he is feeling euphoria or serious relief. Many believe that he is happy to be rid of the arguing or of the struggling marriage. Some of these wives actually attempt to […]
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By: Leslie Cane: There’s no question that there can be a lot of uncertainty and isolation during a marital separation. This is especially true if you are the one who desperately wants to reconcile while your spouse is much less sure, or even outright reluctant. This can actually be a little humiliating because it can […]
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By: Leslie Cane: If you’re recently (or even not-so-recently) separated, then you will know what I mean when I say that you are always looking for clues, signs, and signals that might tell you how your separated husband is feeling. Some of this is due to the uncertainty of the situation; but sometimes, part of […]
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By: Leslie Cane: It’s human nature to want the other person in any romantic relationship to feel the same romantic feelings that you do. No one wants to be the only one who is feeling the love. But this is never true more than when you are trying to reconcile with a separated spouse. You […]
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By: Leslie Cane: It is normal to want to stay very busy when your spouse has moved out for a trial separation. To put it frankly, you just don’t want to have too much time to think about the painful things that have been going on in your life. But, if you have been married […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from wives who are looking for a plan that is going to stop their husband from divorcing them. Sometimes, they have been served with divorce papers and, other times, their husband has just begun to mention the divorce. However, no matter where they are in the process, the wives […]
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By: Leslie Cane: There are certain times in your life where it’s very easy to dread the worst case scenario. Even if you are a natural optimist, when you are faced with the reality that you dread and fear the most, you tend to allow your mind to go to unfortunate places and you almost […]
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By: Leslie Cane: When we are dealing with a spouse who isn’t happy, a troubled marriage, or a separation, then going to counseling can seem like the best thing to do. (And it often is.) However, counseling is not always smooth sailing. Some spouses (particularly husbands) just loathe counseling because it means that they have […]
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