Leslie Cane Articles

By: Leslie Cane: I hear from a lot of separated spouses who, quite understandably, are trying to overcompensate during their separation. What I mean by this is that they are trying to be as nice, as accepting, and as accommodating as they can possibly be – in the hopes that this will help them achieve […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I think it’s fair to say that when a husband leaves home and pursues a marital separation, the effects of this are far-reaching. This decision by a husband will often leave his wife struggling or devastated, but if there are children involved, then they can also be thrown off course. A marital […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I think that I can safely speak for many separated wives when I say that we can feel quite abandoned during our separation. Even if our husband sat us down, gave us fair warning, and tried to make sure that we were taken care of during the break, it can still feel […]

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By: Leslie Cane:  It would be wonderful if we were always on the same page with our marriage.  It would be nice if we would automatically know what our spouse needs and then be able to magically provide it, but this rarely happens. One reason for this is that people don’t always indicate what they […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who ask me if they can give me their martial circumstances in order to get my opinion on whether or not their marriage can be saved. I hear of all sorts of situations – from a divorce being imminent, to a husband who is already involved with […]

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By: Leslie Cane:  If you have children and you are separated, it’s nearly impossible for them not to be affected by this or not to have an opinion about it.  After all, they live in the home too.  And they have eyes and ears.  No matter how much you might try to shield them from […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Some of the time, after several weeks or months have passed during a martial or trial separation, one or both parties begin itching for the other to move back in or to come home. That can be the nature of things – even when you vowed that you would fix your marriage […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Many people who initiate or want a separation pursue this as a test of sorts. Many are unsure about their true feelings for their spouse and so they suspect that a separation is going to make things more clear. After all, if you are away from your spouse and there’s a break […]

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