By: Leslie Cane: Most of the wives who write to or reach out to me are trying very hard to get their separated husband to come home. Many fantasize about this for some time. So when it finally happens and their husband indicates that he would be open to a reconciliation, you would think that […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Sometimes, you are fully aware that it is going to take a whole lot of work to save your marriage and you take responsibility for that. You are prepared for that. And you fully intend to follow through with any promises that you have made to your spouse. Perhaps you have gotten […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Sometimes, we think that our marriage is humming along just fine when we get a wake up call that makes us realize that we really have not been paying attention. It never ceases to amaze me that it’s very common to hyper-fixate on things that don’t really matter – (like pop culture […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Any complaint that causes your husband to disconnect from your marriage, to distance himself from you, or to consider a separation hurts. There is no scenario where this isn’t painful. But I suspect that it can FEEL a little more painful when the reason for his distance seems personal. What I mean […]
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By: Leslie Cane: There is no question that it can be hard to contain your excitement when you think that it might actually be possible to reconcile with a separated spouse. If the separation has been volatile enough or has gone on for long enough, you may have started to worry that you were going […]
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By: Leslie Cane: There is no question that it is an admirable thing when one spouse supports another. This can be emotional, physical, or financial support. The fact is, not every one who is married peaks at their career at the same time as their spouse. Sometimes, they are just beginning on their career path […]
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By: Leslie Cane: For many separated wives who want to reconcile, the first thing that they may try is to get their husband to willingly want to come home. They may attempt this in a number of ways. If these attempts don’t work, many will move on to another strategy. One example is attempting to […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Separated wives often think that if they just knew for sure that their husband still loved them, then things would be OK. They feel sure that if the loving feelings returned, then this marital issue could be worked out. It might be surprising to know that love doesn’t always guarantee that a […]
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By: Leslie Cane: There are times when you are dealing with a trial or marital separation where you don’t really know for sure why your husband pursued all of this. Sure, he may have given you very general descriptions about being unhappy or needing his space, but he hasn’t come right out and told you […]
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By: Leslie Cane: When your husband leaves, you often try to console yourself with the fact that tomorrow is another day. You tell yourself that perhaps in time, you can fix this and the two of you can reconcile. The hope is that you will both eventually calm down, miss each other, and fix what […]
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