My Separated Husband Swears That He Cares For And Loves Me With His Words, But His Actions Prove He Doesn’t Care At All

By: Leslie Cane:  When you are separated, sometimes it’s only natural to put a negative spin on (or to analyze) everything.  After all, you’re operating on fear.  You’ve had to experience some of your worst fears coming true, so you’re bound to wonder just what new problems are going to crop up next. That is […]

What Not To Do When Your Husband Comes Back Home

By: Leslie Cane: Sometimes, when your husband is away because you are going through a marital separation, the day he comes back is considered one of the best days of your life. After all, you have worked for this day. You have sacrificed for this day. You have dreamed of this day. In fact, I […]

How Can I Tell If My Husband Doesn’t See Me As His Wife Anymore?

By: Leslie Cane:  I sometimes hear from wives who can’t help but notice that their husband no longer treats them in the same loving way.  He either pretty much ignores them or treats them in negative or neutral ways.  Regardless, he no longer treats them like a cherished wife.  Sometimes, they confront him about this […]

My Husband Says He Wants To Separate One Day And Then A Few Days Later, He Wants To Stay. I’m Tired Of Not Knowing How He Really Feels

By: Leslie Cane:  It can be very difficult dealing with the problem at hand when your husband announces that he wants to separate or leave you.  It feels so much better when that same husband changes his mind a few days later.  The relief can be hard to describe.  But sometimes, this relief is somewhat […]

My Husband Says There Is Nothing I Can Do To Get Him Back Because He Doesn’t Want To Be Married To Anyone, Including Me.

By: Leslie Cane: Any wife who is separated but wants to save her marriage can have a daunting task ahead of her. But the process is at least a little bit easier when her husband is somewhat open to reconciliation somewhere down the line. Not all husbands fit into this category, though. Some of them […]

I Think We Might Be Coming Together After Our Separation, But How Do I Know It Won’t End Again?

By: Leslie Cane:  When you suspect that your husband may be coming home or that you may be close to a reconciliation after separating, you may think that you have everything that you could possibly want.  You might be very grateful that this very scary and trying time in your life might finally be over. […]

Separated Husbands Who Won’t Commit To Their Wives. What Is Their Thought Process?

By: Leslie Cane:  It’s fair to say that most separated couples that I know or speak with have periods of ups and downs during their separation.  Most of the time, this process isn’t linear.  There will be periods of time where things seem to be going well and the hopes will rise.  And then there […]

What Can I Say To My Separated Husband On Our Anniversary To Win Him Back?

By: Leslie Cane:  There’s no denying that special occasions that occur while you are on a trial separation can be awkward, to say the least. One of the special occasions that is sometimes the most confusing is the anniversary.  You can be unsure as to how you are supposed to acknowledge it.  On the one […]

My Spouse’s Past is Ruining Our Marriage

By: Leslie Cane: Ideally, a marriage is seen as a time when a loving couple can start a new life together. Most people see it as an exciting “new beginning” where a fresh future is laid out just for two. This is the ideal. But it doesn’t always happen this way in the eyes of […]