My Husband Doesn’t Know If He Wants To Make Our Relationship Work

By: Leslie Cane: There is no feeling of helplessness quite like the one you feel when your spouse isn’t sure if he shares your loving feelings. You’re clear on the fact that you love him and that you want to make your marriage work. But when he doesn’t share your certainty, this hurts. I might […]

How Do You Ask For A Second Chance When Your Spouse Doesn’t Trust Your Words?

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who know that they have played a large part in their marital separation. Although they are not the one who asked for the separation or the one who moved out, their actions put the whole thing in motion and they feel badly about this. They know that […]

My Spouse And I Are Completely Different When It Comes To Parenting Our Children. And This Is Really Hurting Our Marriage

By: Leslie Cane: Every one knows that things change once you have children.  You may have thought that you knew what kind of parent your spouse would be.  But no one can really know for sure until they witness their spouse’s parenting style in real life.  Sometimes, parenting brings a couple closer together because they […]

I Finally Got Up My Courage To Tell My Separated Husband I Miss Him. And His Response Was Not Great And Was Disappointing

By: Leslie Cane: Sometimes when you are separated but hoping for a reconciliation, one of the biggest decisions that you will make is how much to disclose to your husband. Sometimes, you may feel very tempted to share your feelings, but you are afraid that this is going to make things worse. You may want […]

My Spouse Says He Regrets How He Treated Me Before And During The Separation. Can I Trust That He Is Sincere?

By: Leslie Cane: When your marital separation is approaching its end, then it would be wonderful if you could just enjoy the relief and the happiness that you feel to be reconciling. But this isn’t always the case. Sometimes, people feel both relief and doubt. While they are happy that they have finally gotten their […]

My Husband Doesn’t Take Care Of Himself And This Affects The Way That I See Him And Our Marriage

By: Leslie Cane:  I sometimes hear from people who no longer see the same person who they have always loved when they look at their spouse.  Many start to believe that their spouse has “let himself go.”  They feel that he just no longer takes pride in his appearance or in his health. And this […]