Leslie Cane Articles

By: Leslie Cane: Wives who are reluctantly separated can put a lot of stock in whether or not (and when) their husband steps foot into the home once again.  I know this because I was one of these wives. Often, we put forth an awful lot of effort to get him to come by or […]

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By: Leslie Cane: People often think that when they live in the same house but fight, this is actually a detriment to their marriage. Many think that if they want to save their marriage, then the optimal thing to do is to officially separate, live apart, and hope that they miss one another. Actually I […]

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By: Leslie Cane:  Many of the people who I hear from reach out because they are dealing with a spouse who has left them.  There are various reasons for this.  Sometimes, there is definable problems within the marriage that most definitely need to be worked through.  But other times, spouses leave for more vague reasons […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I find that very few people go into a separation thinking that it is going to improve their marriage. Very few people are excited about it. But many feel that it might be their only hope if they want to avoid a divorce. And, since its natural to try to look on […]

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By: Leslie Cane: When you are first separated, you sometimes fantasize about the day that you can start seeing your spouse on a romantic level again. For most people, this comes in the form of dates or outings. Many people (myself included) underestimate just how much worry is wrapped up in these outings. You would […]

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By: Leslie Cane: It can be hard to tell if your spouse is serious about his claims concerning your marriage if it appears that he is changing his mind and his behaviors all of the time. You often want for him to be only posturing, especially when he is telling you that your marriage is […]

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By: Leslie Cane: When you are separated and you want your spouse back so badly that it hurts, there is almost nothing worse than knowing that your actions are annoying your spouse so that you are making things worse. People sometimes assume that the person who is trying too hard doesn’t know that their behavior […]

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By: Leslie Cane: When you don’t want a divorce but you suspect or know that your spouse does, then you are always on the lookout for any indication that he is just posturing or trying to get a reaction out of you. Many will think that this sort of seeking is really just seeing what […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Many of the spouses who contact me do so because they are afraid and they are not sure where else to turn.  They have fear that they are ultimately going to end up divorced and this is true whether they are in the middle of a lengthy separation or if they are […]

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