Leslie Cane Articles

By: Leslie Cane: It’s common for me to hear from wives who aren’t sure how they should be acting toward their husband, now that he has announced his desire for a separation. Many fluctuate between wanting to greet him with anger, wanting to act cold toward him, or wanting to be extremely loving in the […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who aren’t quite sure about boundaries during their martial or trial separation. Many are very clear on the fact that they are hoping that this separation will only be temporary. In a perfect world, they are hoping that they will be able to work things out with […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who are dealing with a spouse who has become cold, distant, and “confused.” People are sometimes quick to label this as a mid-life crisis, but it can happen at any point in a person’s life. Typically what you will see is that your spouse will suddenly no […]

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By Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who have to adjust to rapidly changing behaviors from their husband during their trial or marital separation. It’s not uncommon that just as everything seems hopeless and just as the wife begins to live her life again, suddenly the husband begins to show some interest. At that […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I think it’s fair to say that I hear from a lot of wives who are trying to deal with their husband recently leaving them. Some are surprised by this turn of events and some are not. Some are confused as to the reason that their husband has left and some have […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who say that it is as if their feelings have been put under a microscope during their separation. They might try to share their feelings during this time, only to be told that what they are feeling is inappropriate or wrong. This can leave the wife wondering […]

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By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from people who suspect that the time has come to pursue a divorce. They typically feel that their marriage is too damaged to save or they perceive that they don’t love their spouse in the same way anymore. However, as real and as problematic as these feelings are to […]

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