How Can I Be Sure That My Husband Will Stay When He’s Admitted He’s No Longer In Love Me?

By: Leslie Cane:  I sometimes hear from wives who have heard a very difficult truth from their husbands.  He’s now claiming that he is no longer in love with her.  But after dropping that bit of bad news, he’s assuring her that he’s going to stay either because of the children or because of his […]

I’m Miserable With My Spouse. But I Am Also Miserable Without Him. What Can I Do?

By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from folks who had initially hoped that a trial separation would help to give them some clarity about their marriage. Often, the hope is that the time apart will allow them to see that perhaps things weren’t so dire. Unfortunately, this clarity doesn’t always come. Sometimes, the separation only […]

My Spouse Wants To Force Me To Go To Counseling Or Else.

By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from people who are at the point where they’ve been threatened that the only way that their marriage is going to stand a chance is to agree to go to counseling. Often, the frustrated spouse who wants the counseling has asked for this multiple times in many different ways. […]