My Husband Admitted That He’s Still In Love With Me, But He’s Demanding A Divorce Anyway

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who don’t quite understand why their spouse wants to file for a divorce. They often firmly believe that there is a still a lot of love between them. In fact, they often believe this so deeply that they force an admission out of their spouse. Still, their […]

How To Save A Marriage When The Trust Is Gone. Rebuilding The Trust In A Troubled Or Separated Marriage

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who are very clear (and remorseful) about the fact that the big contributing factor to them separating from their spouse is a lack of trust. Often, one spouse has done something unfortunate and significant enough for the other to lose trust in them, which has led to […]

My Spouse Doesn’t Feel That I Love Him As Much As He Loves Me

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who have heard their spouse accuse them of having an unequal relationship. Often, one spouse is accusing the other of not having the same type of feelings as they themselves have. It’s almost as if the spouse making the accusations is keeping score and no matter what […]

My Husband Wants To Move Back Home But I’m Not Ready

By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from couples who disagree about the timing of their reconciliation. Usually, one spouse is ready far earlier than the other. And this can cause hurt feelings and confusion. Because it’s often not that the reluctant spouse never wants to reconcile. They often do want to – at least eventually. […]

Can We Just Start Over Again After Our Marital Separation?

By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from people who are very hurt because of some things that happened during their marital affair. Even when things improve dramatically, the doubts can remain. That’s why it’s sometimes attractive to think that you could just start over or begin again. But, while this sounds promising in theory, people […]

My Husband Finally Came Back After Leaving Me, But I’m Always Afraid That He Will Walk Out On Me Again

By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from wives who recently felt so triumphant when their husband finally came home. But unfortunately, that wonderful feeling was short lived. Today, they are not feeling nearly as confident or blissful. Usually, something happens relatively quickly to test or threaten the relationship so that the wife can begin to […]

My Husband Is Saying Our Marriage Is Over. But He Never Does Anything Or Takes Any Action

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from spouses who have spent some time hearing their spouse say that he’s no longer invested in the marriage or that the marriage is over. Often, there is a great deal of pain and shock the first time that you hear this. But, often, this isn’t the only time […]

We’re Separated But We’re Having More Sex Than Ever? What Does This Mean? Is It Wrong?

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who are confused about the physical relationship that is still happening (and sometimes at a greater frequency) since they separated from their spouse. Some never anticipated continuing on with a sexual relationship once the separation began. And some are surprised to find that their sex life with […]