By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from folks who are quite torn as to what to think about how their separation is evolving. They are often seeing some improvement, but this has taken so long to happen that they hesitate to get their hopes up. They want to believe in the process and have faith […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from people who are trying very hard to gauge how their trial separation is going in terms of being able to save their marriage. They often look for things that they deem good or bad signs which they believe may ultimately have an impact on their marriage. One common […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from people who feel some regret about forcing their spouse to leave or to move out. Often, this request felt very right or satisfying at the time, but now it just feel hasty and wrong. Most of the time, this decision was made in the heat of the moment […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who aren’t sure about what is the appropriate way to act toward their spouse who has announced that he is going to be moving out, usually for a trial or marital separation. Many spouses are somewhat disappointed in or angry at the their spouse for leaving the […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who are looking for the perfect words to say in order to finally get through to the spouse who wants a divorce. Often, they know that this conversation is going to be a last-ditch effort, especially since they have had trouble getting through to their spouse in […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from folks who fully admit that they may need a break or separation from their spouse. But, at the same time, they aren’t yet ready to end their marriage and they are pretty sure that they don’t want a divorce. However, unfortunately, their spouse doesn’t agree. And that can […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from folks who aren’t sure how to best communicate with their spouse when they are separated. Often, they intuitively know that reaching out too much can cause their spouse to pull away. So, they are understandably afraid of coming on too strong. But they worry that their texts or […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who have become so fed up with their husband and with their marriage that they have finally had to make the reluctant choice to seek or file for a divorce. Often, this is a decision that they do not take lightly. They often see the divorce as […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from folks who are very surprised and disappointed at their spouse’s less than kind behavior when they are on a trial or marital separation. Often, they had some hope that the separation might make them miss one another and therefore bring this closer together. But, unfortunately, their spouse’s behavior […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from people who want to get their spouse to stop constantly asking for a separation. Much of the time, they have considered many tactics in order to help them to achieve this. One common tactic is to respond with a firm “no” and then to ignore their spouse. They […]
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