By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from folks who have been filed with divorce papers from a spouse who acted in the heat of the moment. Often, one spouse has done something to make the other so mad that they feel compelled to do something very dramatic in order to make a statement. Sometimes, this […]
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By Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who are alarmed to find that they no longer have any strong feelings for their spouse. Often, they wish that they did still have these feelings because that would make life a lot easier for themselves or for their families. But, when they are being honest, they […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I think that there are two different types of people when it comes to trial separations – those who wanted the separation or initiated it and those who absolutely don’t want it and who want to save their marriage more than anything else. And I often hear from the folks who […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives whose husbands feel that the end of their marriage is drawing near. This is often after a “break,” trial separation, or rough spot in their marriage. Much of the time, the wife doesn’t feel that it’s over for her. She still very much believes in her marriage […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who had previously felt somewhat certain that a divorce was the right path for them to take. But now that a little time has passed or they are at the point where they would naturally file, they aren’t so sure. And this place of indecision can be […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people whose primary objective in life right now is to reconcile with their spouse. They are often going through a difficult separation or their spouse has left the home. And frequently, multiple approaches to facilitate a reconciliation have been tried. But, despite their best efforts, one of the spouses […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from people who separated and who intuitively know that they need to back away slightly during the separation. Many understand that placing their focus on their self and on their own well being might provide some relief and help the situation. But, in real life, they just don’t know how […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who are beside themselves because their spouse is being honest about his conflicting romantic feelings toward them. Often, the person in question has noticed that their spouse is distancing himself or pulling away. So they finally get up the nerve to ask him how he really feels. And […]
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By Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who worry that they are making a mistake to walk away from their marriage. Often, some part of them deep inside of them wonders if they won’t regret their decision later. And yet, when they think about rolling up their sleeves and trying to save their marriage, […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who fully realize that their mistake might cost them their marriage. Most of them are deeply sorry and are looking for a way to inspire their spouse to give them one more chance. Sometimes though, this is a tall order because their spouse has already left […]
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