By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from people who are extremely disappointed with the outcome that follows their trial separation. Often, they have worked so long and hard to get their spouse to come home that they never considered that the reality wouldn’t meet their expectations. In fact, most of us assume that once we have […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from people who are don’t know how to handle their spouse’s swinging emotions and behaviors. Often, it’s obvious that there are problems in the marriage, but because their spouse seems to constantly change his or her mind, it can be very hard to determine the true reality of the […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who are starting to notice great improvements in their relationship when they have been on a trial separation. Often, they want to hope that these improvements mean that the separation might end and that their husband might come home. But they are afraid to address this directly […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who are getting a strange and disturbing message from their husbands. Sometimes, the husband announces that he is struggling to determine who he is and what he wants. And there are times that he will decide that because of this crisis of the self, he must place […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who are struggling with the reasoning that their husband is using for pursuing distance, a break, or a marital separation. Sometimes, the husband will try to tell the wife that the feelings are no longer there, if they were ever there in the first place. This can […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from wives who are lost on many levels during their marital separation. Often, they are experiencing this difficult time in an empty house with more than enough free time on their hands. And they have no idea how to fill their empty days. Often, they intuitively know that […]
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By: Leslie Cane: Most of the time, spouses who are reluctant to separate in the first place hope that the separation is over as quickly as is possible. Often, they fear that the longer the separation goes on, the less of a chance there is that they can save their marriage. I heard from a […]
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By: Leslie Cane: It’s not unusual for me to hear from wives who are separating but who still want to save their marriage. Much of the time, they don’t understand how this is going to be possible when their husband doesn’t feel the same way that they do. I heard from a wife who said: […]
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By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who are trying to gauge their separated husband’s feelings and attitude toward them and the marriage. Quite often, the spouse who has been left is the spouse who wants a reconciliation the most. And, making that happen is always at the center of their thoughts. But the […]
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