My Husband Mentions A Separation When We Fight. How Concerned Should I Be?

By: Leslie Cane:  I often hear from people who have become increasingly concerned about the content and tone of fights with their spouse.   Often, the couple has been fighting for a while, but lately, the arguments have taken on a new, sinister tone and the husband has even started to broach the subject of […]

I Want To Save My Marriage, But It’s Not Working. What Am I Doing Wrong?

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from people who aren’t sure how much more work they can put into their marriage. Often, they feel as if they have been working for a long and difficult time, although they have little to show for it. And many times, they are disappointed that they are not seeing […]

Is There Any Hope That My Husband Will Come Back?

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who are in the middle of a marital separation who are absolutely panicked. Sometimes, their husband has cut off most or all contact or he just isn’t acting very receptive to his wife or to the marriage. And it is at this time that you can feel […]

Should I Beg My Husband To Give Me Another Chance?

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who know that many of the issues in their marriage stem from mistakes that they have made. In short, they know that a big reason that their husband has left or insisted on a separation is because of their own actions. So, often, not only are they […]

What Does My Husband Want To Hear From Me During Our Separation?

By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from wives who are looking for the perfect combination of what to do or say during their marital separation in order to lure their husband back to them.  Often, the wife knows that she wants to save her marriage and work things out while the husband is not so […]

How Can I Not Be Sad When I’m With My Separated Husband?

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who are really struggling to remain positive during their marital or trial separation. Intellectually, they often know that keeping an upbeat attitude is vital to giving them the best chance of attracting their husband and saving their marriage. However, their heart doesn’t seem to want to follow […]

My Husband Is Worried About What His Family Will Think If We Get Back Together.

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who are very afraid that they are never going to be able to get back together with the husband that they still love. This can be very frustrating when you know in your heart that your husband still loves you and that your marriage might stand a […]

How Do I Get My Separated Husband To Have Sex With Me So That We Can Reconcile

By: Leslie Cane: It’s very normal for a separated wife who is still committed to her marriage to look for any advantage that she can get to give herself a chance to get her husband back.  It’s not unusual for the wife to look to sex to give her an edge.  And you can’t really […]

My Husband Moved Out. Apparently Now He Wants To Move Back In. What Now?

By: Leslie Cane: Often, after your husband moves out, you spend a lot of time thinking about whether (and when) he will return. You might even spend a decent amount of time thinking about what you can do to get him home sooner rather than later. Sometimes, this whole thing doesn’t go as you planned […]

Why Do People Tell Me My Husband Will Come Back?

By: Leslie Cane: Sometimes, I hear from wives who are confused and frustrated by well meaning reassurances that they receive when they are separated or dealing with a husband who has left them. Often, they aren’t sure if they are hearing sincere comments or if these comments are just an attempt to say anything – […]