My Husband Says He Left Me Because He’s “Confused.” What Does He Even Have To Be Confused About?

By: Leslie Cane: Many wives have been given the old “I’m confused” excuse by a husband who has just left or moved out.  Often, the wives are at a loss as to what he could possibly be confused about.  A wife might explain this type of situation: “last week, I came home and found a […]

Should I Tell My Husband That Our Separation And Impending Divorce Is Hurting Our Kids? Will It Help?

By: Leslie Cane:  Many separated wives are very concerned about the well-being of their children when separation or divorce is on the horizon.  This is typically just one reason that the wives don’t want a divorce.  And they hope that if they can make their husband realize that the children are going to be very […]

My Separated Husband Won’t Say What He’s Feeling. How Can I Get Him To Open Up?

By: Leslie Cane: Many wives are very frustrated because they are separated from their husband, but they have no idea what he’s feeling or whether or not his feelings are favorable to him returning home and trying to save the marriage. A wife might explain: “my husband and I separated two weeks ago because this […]

My Separated Husband Always Calls And Wants To Know What I’m Doing. Why? How Should I Respond?

By: Leslie Cane:  Many wives are very confused about their husband’s conflicting behavior during their marital separation.  Often, he is the one who initiated the separation and it seems as if he almost can’t wait to leave.  But as soon as the couple is living apart, suddenly the husband wants to keep tabs on the […]

My Husband Is Now Telling Me That Our Marriage Was A Mistake. What Should I Do?

By: Leslie Cane:  I sometimes hear from wives who are dealing with a new devastating reality.  They are reeling because their husband has told him that their marriage was a mistake from the start.  So, they are left sitting in stunned silence and unsure where this leaves them, or their marriage. I heard from a […]

Is A Trial Separation Easier For The Spouse Who Moves Out?

By: Leslie Cane: Many people in the middle of a trial separation feel as if they have the tougher side of the situation.  Often, the spouse who remains in the home (with all of the responsibilities) feels that the spouse who has moved out (and now seems to have more freedom) has the easier situation. A […]