My Husband Wants A Separation To See If The Spark Comes Back In Our Marriage

By:  Leslie Cane:  It’s not uncommon for me to hear from wives who have serious doubts about a marital separation.  Often, it is the husband who is pushing to separate while the wife would like to try other measures to save the marriage.  Much of the time, the wife questions the husband’s motives in wanting […]

How Do I Get My Own Life When My Marriage Is In Limbo?

By: Leslie Cane: Many wives are discouraged while they are waiting for their husband to determine what he wants to do about their marriage.  Often, there isn’t a lot of certainties about the future of the marriage or whether it can be saved.   And while the wife may hang onto her husband’s every word […]

My Husband Refuses To Reconsider Wanting A Divorce. What Can I Do?

By: Leslie Cane:  Many women are desperately trying to change their husband’s mind about wanting a divorce.  Many have asked him to reconsider in a number of different ways, but they haven’t yet been successful.  As a result, many are looking for some strategy late in the game that will finally make him change his […]

I’m Having Problems Getting Along With My Husband While We’re Separated

By: Leslie Cane:  Wives can be disappointed that their marital separation is not going in the way that they had hoped.  Many vowed to try to improve things during the separation.  The hope was that not living under the same roof might help to soothe the tension of hurt feelings.   Unfortunately, some wives find that […]

I’m Worried My Husband Will Move On During Our Trial Separation?

By: Leslie Cane: Many wives see a trial separation not as an opportunity, but as a risk.  They worry that their husband is just using the separation as an opportunity to eventually get a divorce or to move on from their marriage. As an example, a wife said: “my husband has been pushing for a […]