How Do I Know If My Husband Has Changed Enough During Our Marital Separation?

By: Leslie Cane: Many wives doubt their husband’s claims that he has changed while they were going through a trial or marital separation. Often, the wife truly does have at least some desire to work things out. But often, the husband’s promises to change are nothing new and the wife has her doubts. She might […]

How Do You Cope When Your Husband Leaves You and You Still Love Him?

By: Leslie Cane: I get a lot of emails asking for tips on coping when your husband has left but you still love him and want him back. It can be very painful and just feel odd when you’re on your own and feel like part of you is missing. It can also be worse […]

My Husband Moved Out But Said Our Marriage Isn’t Over. Why The Mixed Signals?

By: Leslie Cane: Many wives are confused and frustrated by the mixed signals that their husband is giving off during a marital separation. Often, the wives are trying to prepare themselves for the worst. They sometimes figure that they have to be realistic so they admit, even to themselves, that their situation is not a […]

We’re Actually Getting Along Better Since My Spouse Moved Out. What Happens Now?

By: Leslie Cane: Some folks are pleasantly surprised with how their marital separation is shaping up. Many had braced themselves for the worst and were afraid that the separation would actually lead to a divorce. So the fact that things have improved can be a huge relief. But it can also leave you with more […]

I Don’t Think I’m In Love With My Husband Anymore. There’s No Attraction Or Closeness: Tips and Advice That May Help

By: Leslie Cane: I get a lot of emails from wives who tell me that they don’t think that they love their husbands anymore, or that they love their husbands but are not “in love” with them.  Some of them will bluntly admit that they don’t find their husband attractive anymore.  Common reasons are things […]

I Don’t Want A Divorce, But I’m Not Sure If I Love My Spouse

By: Leslie Cane: Many folks are very committed to sticking things out in their marriage. Sometimes, they have children and they are vowing to stay together for their kids’ sake. Other times, they believe that marriage is forever and they are not about to break those vows no matter what happens. These are honorable ideals […]