Leslie Cane Articles

By: Leslie Cane: Many people have a hard time giving up on or letting go of their husbands. This can be true even if a separation or divorce is imminent or is actually happening. And when I get these types of correspondence, it always brings back memories for me because I was in this situation, […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Many people are dealing with a separation wasn’t their idea and, deep down, they are opposed to it. They are hoping to get the separation over with as soon as possible so that they can get on with the business of saving their marriage. Because of our very poor economy, many couples […]

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By:  Leslie Cane: Many people are uncomfortable about (or impatient with) the marriage saving process. Often, they aren’t seeing the progress that they expected. And sometimes, they think that the whole process is taking way too long, considering the disappointing results.  Many are dangerously close to giving up, due to their frustrations fueled by impatience. […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Some wives have read that it’s best to remain calm when your husband is asking for or saying that he wants a divorce. The reason for this is that your panic can cause you to do or say all of the wrong things and to make the divorce that much more likely. […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Many people aren’t sure which direction they want to take with their troubled marriage. Often, on the one hand, they realize that things have gotten bad. They often wonder if things are so bad that nothing they say or do is going to make a difference. And a tiny part of them […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Sometimes, panicked wives are in one of two situations: Either their husband has informed them that he has filed divorce papers. Or, the wife knows that he has filed them because she has been served with a copy. Most of the wives who contact me do not want a divorce. They are […]

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By: Leslie Cane:  Many wives don’t have specifics as to when or if their husband is coming back.  But many are still hoping that one day soon, he is going to come back and work with them to save their marriage, even though friends and family are often telling them that they are crazy or […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Many wives are still in shock that their husband has, seemingly out of the blue, announced that he wants a divorce or separation because he does not feel like an equal partner in the marriage. Sometimes, he has hinted or complained about this issue for a long time and it has finally […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Many wives are relieved that their husband is beginning to show a little more interest in them while they are going through a marital separation. However, as relieved as they are, these women can be unsure as to what is the best way to react to this new found interest. Should they […]

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By: Leslie Cane: Many wives are incredibly frustrated because their husband seems to be blaming her for all of his personal problems and his unhappiness. Often, the wife does not agree with his assessment. In fact, many wives truly believe that their presence actually makes their husband’s life better and they very much resent their […]

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