Can Going To Church Or Finding Religion Help Save Our Marriage? Can A Higher Power Help Change My Husband’s Mind?

By: Leslie Cane: Many people are looking for anything that might help save their marriage or change their spouse’s mind about wanting a divorce. Some people have been helped by their pastor and church and they wonder if encouraging their spouse to come along will help to change that same spouse’s mind about the marriage […]

My Husband Lies All The Time. I Feel Like I Can’t Trust Him And This Is Hurting Our Marriage

By: Leslie Cane: Many wives struggle with how to address their husband’s lies. Sometimes, these lies have to do with very important things like money, fidelity, and the marriage itself. Other times, the lies themselves aren’t about serious or deal-breaking topics, but the fact that he continuously lies to you when he has no reason […]

Should I Try To Make My Husband Choose Between Coming Home Or Getting A Divorce?

By: Leslie Cane: Many wives want nothing more than for their separated husband to finally come home. Usually, the couple has separated but the husband is dragging his feet on coming up with the resolution. I am usually contacted by the wife who wants her husband to come home so that they can save the […]

This Is Our Last Attempt At A Marriage Reconciliation. How Can We Make It Work This Time?

By Leslie Cane: Sometimes, people who know that they are coming up on their last chance to save their marriage have already been separated once or multiple times. Other times, their spouse has run out of patience and he isn’t sure if he loves them or wants the marriage.  As a result, he is being […]

My Marriage Feels Forced. What Does That Mean And What Can I Do About It?

By: Leslie Cane: People sometimes tell me that they are concerned because their marriage feels “forced.” Sometimes, they have been trying to save their marriage, or have been fighting a lot, or have an issue that they’ve been struggling to work through. As a result, sometimes they’re navigating difficult situations that bring about awkward situations. […]

Should I Leave My Husband Before He Leaves Me?: Tips And Advice To Help You Decide

By: Leslie Cane: Many wives are dealing with a husband who is asking for or insisting that he needs “space.” Sometimes, he will hint heavily that he wants to leave, separate, or divorce. Often the wife will see this request for space as a rejection or as an indication that their marriage is on its […]

My Husband Just Moved Out Because We’re Separated. Is It Too Early To Call Him? How Early Is Too Early?

By: Leslie Cane: Folks who are recently separated often try to gauge the appropriate amount of time and frequency with which to call their spouse. Many are reeling because of the separation and very much want to reach out to their spouse. But they are scared of being rejected or of wanting too much too […]

Every Time I Try To Bring Up Our Marriage Or Trying To Save It, My Husband Changes The Subject

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from spouses who are trying in vain to get their husbands or wives to clarify what is happening with their marriage. It’s often quite obvious that there are serious problems and issues, but it can be difficult (if not downright impossible) to not know what the future holds. Many […]

How Long Do I Have To Wait For My Husband To Come Back Home Before I Get On With My Life?

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from folks (usually wives) who have no idea when (or if) their spouse is coming back to them. Sometimes, they are legally separated and sometimes their spouse has just up and left either after a fight or after announcing that he’d like a break or some time to himself. […]

My Husband Says He Can’t Forgive Me Anymore

By: Leslie Cane:  I sometimes hear from wives who fully realize and admit that their failing marriage is mostly their fault. Many are fully aware that they have made grave mistakes and that their husband is justified in wanting to separate or end their marriage. But this doesn’t mean that they want to give up. […]