I’ve Realized My Mistakes And Changed My Ways. Will My Husband Give Me A Second Chance At Our Marriage?

by: Leslie Cane:  It’s an awful feeling to be looking back on your marriage with negative hindsight.  Sometimes, we don’t see things clearly enough until we’re faced with actually losing them for good.  I recently heard from a wife who was experiencing this first hand.  Her husband had left her after finally becoming tired of […]

I Wasn’t A Good Wife In The Past, But I’ve Changed. How Can I Get My Husband Back?

by: leslie cane:  Many of the wives who contact me about finding a way to save their marriages realize that they had some part in the marital collapse.  I often hear comments like: “we grew apart,” or “we didn’t make an effort to stay connected.”  Another example is “things just changed between us and the […]

I’m Not Sure If My Husband Really Wants To Save Our Marriage

by: Leslie Cane: Most of the correspondence that I get is from wives who want nothing more than to save their marriages. Often, one of the first objectives in this scenario for these wives is to get the husband on board so that they aren’t trying to save their marriages alone. And sometimes, the husband […]

Can A Marriage Be Saved After A Divorce?

by leslie cane:  Much of the time, I hear from people who are trying to save their marriages before a divorce is final.  Often, they know that they have a finite amount of time to get their spouse back before the marriage officially and legally ends.  Many see the final divorce decree as the end […]

I No Longer Love My Spouse. Should I Stay For The Kids?

by: leslie cane:  I’ll admit that most of the correspondence that I receive comes from people who are very clear on the fact that they want to save their marriage but they aren’t sure how to do it when their spouse is resistant or has already moved out or filed for divorce.  The vast majority […]

My Husband Wants To Stay With Me At Our House When He’s Considering A Separation Or Divorce. Should I Let Him?

by: Leslie Cane: Having your husband tell you that he wants a divorce or separation is bad enough, but having him tell you that he wants to stay in your home with you throughout the process can add a lot of confusion to the mix. I recently heard from a wife whose husband had just […]

How Do I Coexist With My Spouse When We Want To Stay Married But Don’t Get Along?

by: leslie cane: I hear from so many people who tell me that they live in a loveless marriage where they are just sort of coexisting in the same house.  Much of the time, they tell me that divorce is not an option for them either because of their children or because of financial or […]

Should I Try To Make My Husband Feel Guilty For Wanting A Divorce? If So, How?

by: leslie cane:  I often hear from wives who are scrambling to come up with the best course of action after their husband tells them that he wants a divorce.   Many of them are looking for a way to make their husbands either regret the decision to divorce or to see that it is the […]

I Drove My Husband Away. How Can I Get Him Back?

by:  leslie cane:  It’s very common for wives to take on the blame when their husband leaves them or wants a divorce.   Much of the time, there is plenty of blame to go around and taking it all onto your own shoulders seldom does much good.  However, many wives are convinced that it was their […]

How Do I Make My Husband Interested In Saving Our Marriage? Insights That Might Help

by: leslie cane:  Most of the wives that I hear from are interested in one main objective – saving their marriages.   Unfortunately, most of the time, the wives are the only ones who are interested in doing this – at least at the time that they contact me.  Much of the time, the wife is […]