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by: leslie cane:   Being separated from your husband is difficult enough when you have access to him and know where he is.  But it’s even more difficult when you have no idea where he is and have no access to him whatever.  I recently heard from a wife who was in this situation.  She had […]

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by: leslie cane:  I recently heard from a wife who could not say enough nice and complementary things about her husband.  She slathered on the praise, saying that he was a wonderful man and a loving father.  She said he was always willing to help out around the house and that he was dependable and […]

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by: Leslie Cane:  Many of the women asking this question today remember that not so long ago,  both their husband and themselves were both very happy in their marriage.   But that mutual happiness is sometimes in stark contrast with today when their husband is telling them that he’s just not happy anymore.   And although there […]

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by: leslie cane:  Many wives who contact me are going through some serious turmoil within their marriage.  Some are just beginning a separation and some have even been served with divorce papers.  Others just know that their marriage is in serious trouble.  Despite all of the drama going on their lives, many of these wives […]

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by: leslie cane: I recently heard from a wife who had received divorce papers while at work. Although she knew that things weren’t going so great in her marriage, she was a little shocked that her husband had proceeded and had taken the first steps toward splitting up. The wife was not sure how she […]

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by: Leslie Cane: Many of the women who visit my blog can literally feel their husband or their boyfriend slipping away from them. The distance is a feeling that has become so real that you can almost touch it. I often hear things like “our relationship today is just so different. He’s cold, indifferent, and […]

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By: Leslie Cane:  I recently heard from a wife who was worried because she couldn’t help but notice that her husband never wanted to be alone with her anymore.  Every time they went somewhere or did anything, he would automatically invite friends or family.  This hurt her feelings and it wasn’t doing much for their […]

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By: Leslie Cane:  I recently heard from a wife who felt a great deal of anxiety about the state of her marriage.  Although no one had spoken about a separation or getting a divorce, it had become obvious to her that the marriage was on a decline.  She said that she felt as though the […]

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by: Leslie Cane: I recently received correspondence from a wife who told me that she was afraid that she losing feelings of love for her husband. She specifically said that she no longer felt “connected” or “intimate” with him and she suspected that he felt the same way. They weren’t being ugly to one another […]

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By Leslie Cane:  I often hear from wives whose husbands have told them that he no longer loves them.  They often don’t want to accept this and some doubt if it’s even true.  These women want to know if they have to accept this or if there is anything at all that they can do.  […]

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