A Letter To A Husband To Convince Him Not To Leave The Marriage: What Should It Include? Can It Work?

by: Leslie Cane: I sometimes get requests for tips on how to write a very effective letter meant to convince a husband that the marriage is worth saving and can be rescued if both parties work together to make this happen. Many wives want to go with the letter route because they feel that their […]

My Husband Is Telling Me To Leave. What Do I Do?

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives whose husbands are going to leave them.  Sometimes, though, there’s a different variation on this same theme.  I recently heard from a wife whose husband wanted her to be the one to leave the house.  They had been having marriage issues for some time and the husband […]

My Husband Is So Angry With Me That He Wants A Divorce

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes speak with wives who have husbands who are so angry with them that they’re saying or hinting that they want a divorce. Usually, the wife has done something that she regrets, is apologizing and saying she’s sorry, but finds that neither of these things matter all that much to her […]

I No Longer Feel Loved By My Husband. What Do I Do? Tips That May Help.

by: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from wives who worry that their husbands are no longer “in love” with them. These same wives are usually no longer receiving the affection or the affirmations that make someone in a marriage feel loved. These women will often tell me things like “it’s almost as if I don’t […]

My Husband Told Me He Hasn’t Loved Me In A Long Time, That He Stayed For The Kids, And That He’s Considering Leaving

By: Leslie Cane: I recently heard from a wife who was quite devastated at the horrible surprise that had been sprung on her and dropped in her lap.  Her last child had recently left the house for college. Shortly after that, her husband sat her down and told her that he was considering leaving their […]

He’s Always Comparing Me To Other Women And It’s Ruining Our Marriage

I once heard from a wife who was being hurt by her husband’s constant comparisons between her and other women. Sometimes, he compared her to her sisters, friends, coworkers, or acquaintances. Other times, he compared her to complete strangers. She had been trying to ignore this for a while, but lately, it had been grating […]

Reasons Husbands Lose Affection

by Leslie Cane: I get many variations on this question. Usually, I hear from wives who are afraid that their husbands just don’t love or find them all that attractive anymore. Many of these wives feel that they really are trying their best to keep their husband’s interest, but despite their best efforts, they feel […]

Easy Tips For Preventing Your Husband From Divorcing You

Most of the women I speak with about relationships are willing to do just about anything to save their marriage and prevent a divorce. Sometimes, their spouse doesn’t want a divorce either, but this isn’t always the case. The situation that I most often see is that one spouse is considering a divorce, while the […]

My Husband’s Anger Issues Are Destroying My Marriage: Tips And Advice That Might Help To Save Your Marriage

I sometimes hear from wives who believe that many of the problems in their marriage stem from their husbands’ anger issues. Often, the husband is very quick to lash out at or show extreme anger at the wife or their children. And sometimes, this anger comes after incidents that would seem very small or insignificant […]

I Just Don’t Feel That My Husband Loves Me

I once heard from a wife who felt strongly that her husband no longer loved her.  For the past couple of years, she had noticed a shift in her marriage.  He no longer lit up when he looked at her.  He no longer listened intently when she talked.  He no longer spontaneously touched her or […]