My Husband Says It’s Too Little Too Late To Save Our Marriage. How Do I Change His Mind?

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes speak with wives who are desperately trying to convince their husbands that it’s possible to save their marriage. Sometimes, the husband remains firm in his belief that the marriage is too far gone to save. I recently heard from a wife in this situation. She said, in part: “I’m pretty […]

I Don’t Want To Give Up But My Husband Says Our Marriage Isn’t Working: How To Work Around This

By: Leslie Cane: I once heard from a wife whose husband had been constantly telling her that their marriage “just wasn’t working” for him anymore and that he was thinking about exploring other options.  Needless to say, this wasn’t what she wanted to hear.  He’d been talking about separating, staying with friends, or filing for […]

Is It Normal To Second Guess Yourself Or Have Second Thoughts About Separating? I Thought I Wanted The Separation, But Now I Realize I Made A Mistake And Love My Spouse

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes hear from spouses who, during a separation or break that they themselves had asked for, had the sudden realization as to what a huge mistake they had made. I often hear comments like “I’m the one who pushed for the separation. I really thought I’d fallen out of love with […]

I’m Not Ready To Give Up On My Marriage – Insights And Tips That Might Help You Decide When To Hang On

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes dialogue with spouses who are trying desperately to hold onto their marriages while their own spouse is ready to call it quits. I hear comments like: “I’m not ready to give up on my marriage, but my spouse is. What can I do to change his mind before it’s too […]

My Husband Completely Neglects Me. I Know That I’m Losing My Husband – What Can I Do To Save My Marriage?

By: Leslie Cane: I once heard from a wife who told me that she could literally feel her husband slipping away from her. She said in part: “I know that I’m losing him. I can feel it. He just doesn’t seem all that interested in me or the marriage anymore. I feel like any day […]

My Husband Filed For Divorce Suddenly But I Don’t Want It And Am Running Out Of Time. What Can I Do?: Here Are Some Tactics To Try.

By: Leslie Cane: I sometimes speak with women whose husbands are hinting that they want or intend to file for a divorce. Sometimes, though, there is a more dire situation. I hear from wives whose husbands have just filed the paperwork to set the divorce in motion. Such was the case yesterday. I heard from […]