How To Fight For Your Marriage Without Fighting With Your Husband: Hint. You Don’t “Fight” At All

By: Leslie Cane: I often write articles about saving marriages.  Perhaps it’s because wives research this topic more than men, or perhaps it’s because women are more proactive in their marriages, but I’m most often contacted by wives (and a few husbands too) who tell me something like: “Our relationship is in real trouble. We […]

When is it Time to End a Marriage? Here’s A Much Better Question To Ask

By: Leslie Cane: Here’s fair disclosure right upfront.  I am a big proponent of saving marriages and preventing divorce.  I know first hand that even problem marriages which seem to be at the end can be saved.  Still, I am often contacted by people who ask me “how do I know it is really the end […]

My Husband Doesn’t Say “I Love You Back.” Does He Love Me At All?

By; Leslie Cane: One of the questions I am often asked is, “How do I know if my husband still loves me? Because he never tells me that he loves me anymore. Sometimes, when I tell him that I love him, he changes the subject or doesn’t reply. He never shows me affection.”  While I […]

How to Handle a Trial Separation So That it Helps, Not Hurts, Your Marriage

By: Leslie Cane: I often receive emails from women who want me to tell them “how to best handle a trial separation.”  These women generally fall into two categories.  There are those who are just thinking and talking about a trial separation and haven’t yet gone through with it (and many times the wives don’t […]

I Don’t Think My Husband Loves Me Anymore: Why You May Be Wrong In This Assumption. And What To Do About It

By: Leslie Cane: I am often approached by women who are at the end of their marital rope.  Usually, in hushed tones, or with pained faces, they confess “I don’t think my husband loves me anymore.”  Some are afraid that divorce is on the horizon, while some are just sad because the marriage is no […]

Divorce Signs – The Top Three Signs That You Are Heading For (Or Your Spouse Is Considering) a Divorce

By: Leslie Cane: Oftentimes, I get emails from wives (but sometimes also from husbands or partners) who ask me if I can point out “divorce signs” or behaviors that would indicate that their spouse is thinking about or getting ready to begin or file a divorce.  While this list is going to be different for […]

My Husband Wants to Divorce Me: Why You Should Tell Him He’s Right And Walk In His Shoes If You Want To Save The Marriage

By: Leslie Cane: I receive a lot of emails from wives who want advice on how to save their marriages and prevent divorce.  One of the more common requests is something like “Help! My husband wants to divorce me, but I don’t want to end the marriage. What can I do to change his mind?” […]

My Husband Is Emotionally Unavailable. I Think He Longer Loves Me: Tips To Get Him Invested Again

By: Leslie Cane: I often get emails from wives who ask me to suggest ways to get their husband’s love back in their marriage. Usually, with a bit of prompting, I can get them to tell me that they really fear their husbands are no longer “in love” with them. This is usually just a […]

Sound Strategies to Save Your Marriage – What You Must and Must Not Do to Stop Divorce

By: Leslie Cane: If you’re reading this article, chances are you’re frantically researching how you can get your marriage back on track or save it from divorce. It doesn’t matter why. Whether you have children, know that divorce can be emotionally and financially difficult, or just believe that marriage should be forever, some steps will […]

I Don’t Want a Divorce But He Does – What Can I Do? Understand The Power Of Validation.

By: Leslie Cane: I have written many articles about preventing divorce and saving your marriage, so I suppose it is no secret that for the most part, I believe that it is always possible to save your marriage even if your husband insists that he wants a divorce. Over the weekend, I received an email […]