Desperate to Save Your Marriage? These Tips and Advice May Help

By: Leslie Cane: I’m often contacted by wives who tell me that they are “desperate to save the marriage,” but also feel like they are running out of time and options. Often, by the time they contact me, they’ve already tried numerous tactics, made numerous promises, and initiated numerous changes that have somehow still left […]

Husband Wants Out? Advice and Tips to Save Your Marriage When You’re the Only One Trying By Nurturing The Seed Of Curiosity

Because this is the topic that I most often write about, I am sometimes approached by women who are absolutely panicked, thinking that their husband’s request for a break, separation, or divorce marks the end of the road.  Typically, I’m contacted after the wives have already tried a slew of tactics based on fear and […]

He Wants a Divorce But You Don’t? Try These Strategies To Ease Your Way Into Saving Your Marriage

By: Leslie Cane: I can empathize with many of the emails from visitors who ask for advice on how to proceed when their husband wants a divorce, but they want to save their marriage.  I was in the same situation a few years ago.  This is a very tough spot to be in because you […]

Husband Wants Out of the Marriage? Advice For Anxious Wives On How To React When He Suddenly Wants Space, A Break, Separation, Or Divorce.

By: Leslie Cane: Probably one of the most common requests or emails that I get is a request for advice when a husband “wants out” of the marriage. Now, these emails run the gauntlet. Sometimes, the husband hasn’t really said anything, but has hinted around, or is acting in such a way that the wife […]

When One Spouse Wants Out of a Marriage But The Other Wants To Save It: Tactics For Meeting In The Middle

By: Leslie Cane: I wish I could say that all of the readers who find my blog are on the same page with their spouse’s but they’re not.  The most common scenario that I come in contact with is that one spouse (usually the husband, for my audience) wants to move forward with a divorce, […]

Tips For When You Want to Get A Husband Back – Even When You Think Your Mistakes Mean It’s Too Late

By: Leslie Cane: Probably the most common comment or question that I get is “I want to get my husband back, but I just don’t know how.” Often people will tell me that they are afraid that there is just too much water under the bridge, or their husbands are too angry, too distant, or […]

Secrets on How to Get Back Your Husband: How To Understand What He Really Wants And What He’s Looking For Right Now.

By: Leslie Cane: Often people will email me and ask for “secrets for getting a husband back.” The truth is, there wasn’t one particular secret that was the deciding factor in saving my own marriage. Rather, it was several techniques that I used together. I suppose that you can fairly call them “secrets” as they […]

How To Talk To Your Partner To Save Your Marriage: How To Communicate The Words And Actions He / She Wants To Hear (And Why You Might Have To Read Between The Lines.)

By: Leslie Cane:  I’m often contacted by women (but also by some men) who want me to tell them what, exactly, to say to their spouses to save the marriage.  They want some “magic words” or the “perfect letter” to communicate to their spouse how much they want to make the marriage work.  While these […]

How Do You Save My Marriage When My Spouse Wants a Divorce? By Controlling What You Can – Yourself, Your Actions, And The Pace.

By: Leslie Cane: Saving a marriage can take a lot of hard work and commitment, but this process can be even more difficult when only one party is on board. I receive a lot of emails from people who are trying to save their marriages alone. Typically, one spouse will desperately want to rescue the […]

I Want Advice on Saving My Marriage With My Husband: Why It’s The Small, Genuine, Collaborative Changes That Make All The Difference

By: Leslie Cane: A couple of days ago, I received an email from a wife who had been married for well over a decade.  She shared with me that, over the last couple of years, she has felt her husband slipping away.  She told me that her husband ” spends less time at home, doesn’t […]